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Dallas Jessup on how to turn anger at injustice into a movement for change

From the front lines of youth activism,  17-year-old Dallas Jessup delivers a how-to guide for any teen who  wants to change the world. She shares inspiring stories of teen  activists and her own community service project, which grew into a  worldwide revolution against predators. An excerpt.

Americans love a good Revolution. In fact, Thomas Jefferson once said, “A little rebellion now and then is a good thing.”

Maybe  one starts with dumping tea in a harbor to start a Revolution for  Freedom; perhaps another starts with an inspiring speech, challenging  the citizens of a great nation to judge people by the content of their  character and not the color of their skin in a Revolution for Civil  Rights; and just maybe a new revolutionary change in the world starts  today in this library, in this study, in this living room, in this cozy  chair by the window — with you reading this book, one page at a time.

Revolutions, after all, aren’t always fought  by large armies or entire nations. They don’t even require gunfire,  violence or bloodshed. In fact, the most important revolutions start  small; one person at a time. An idea, an observation, a thought or even  just a feeling can all give rise to the power of a revolution.

That’s  why I’m here: I want to challenge you to start a Revolution of your own  and to let you know just how to make that happen. Anybody can be the  catalyst to a fundamental change in our society, even kids.

Young Revolutionaries Who Rock

The  younger you are the more power you actually have to act on your  thoughts, feelings and emotions. Think about it: you grow up, get  married, buy a house, have kids of your own, and get bogged down with  bills and responsibilities. How are you going to start a revolution  then? We have the freedom, the power, the energy, the dreams and the  courage to start revolutions. All we need is a little push. I’ve met  about ... kids that have done just that with a hundred separate causes  and I’ve heard about, and that doesn’t include the few thousand I  haven’t heardabout.

If  you’ll join us I think we’ll see a very different and far better world  five years from now; a better world created by Revolutionaries like you and me.

You have the right to take back your power Since I started the Just Yell Fire Revolution  a few years ago, I’ve met a lot of rape survivors and near-rape  avoiders. They’ve all told me horror stories that I hope you never have  to hear or experience. And the one thing all rape victims — all victims  in general — have in common is a feeling of powerlessness. Whether it  is by surrendering your power unwillingly, the taking of your power  without permission, or purely a lack of personal power, being  victimized is a horrible feeling.

Do you know how that feels? I bet you do. Kids  are some of the most powerless people on the planet; or so we think.  When you are bullied and afraid to leave the house, that’s  powerlessness. When you are singled out because of your race, religion  or sexual orientation, that’s powerlessness. When you are punished by  parents, principals and the powers that be, that is powerlessness in  its simplest form.

When  you can’t play on this team because you’re a girl or cheer on that  squad because you’re a boy, that’s the powerlessness of inequality.  When you can’t walk to school because bigger kids might hurt you,  that’s the powerlessness of injustice. When you turn on the evening  news and see hunger and earthquakes and tornadoes and hurricanes and  bombings and are frustrated by the inability to help — that’s powerlessness pure and simple.

But  I want you to know that you can turn that powerlessness around and into  real positive power; many a revolution began by turning powerlessness  into power. When settlers braved hunger and thirst and wild animals to  colonize America, they did so because they felt powerless back home in  England. When England began persecuting settlers all over again in  their new country, they felt powerless once more. They were tired of  feeling powerless and so they did what no one thought they could do:  they started a revolution.

I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to be powerless anymore.

It’s time for you to take back your power.

It’s time for your Revolution!

You have the right to be a revolutionary When  I first saw the video footage of eleven-year-old Carlie Brucia being  abducted in front of a car wash in broad daylight several years ago, I  was outraged. When I learned that Carlie had been raped and killed, I  was sickened. When her killer was put in jail, I felt that Carlie had  been vindicated. That feeling lasted only a moment, and I only felt  slightly satisfied. I knew that a woman is raped every two minutes in  the United States. I knew that there are over 114,000 attempted  abductions every year. I knew there would be more Carlies later that  day, and the next, and so on and forever. But I knew something else: I  knew I had the right to try and stop it. I knew I was powerful enough  to overcome these feelings of powerlessness.

I knew I could start a Revolution of my own; I just had to figure out how.

So I started the Just Yell Fire movement  and made a film about how to avoid being abducted or raped — and as of  this writing 600,000 people have downloaded it from every corner of the  world. I started speaking at schools all over the United States, and  now I operate the Just Yell Fire non-profit organization, which has helped empower girls in 41 countries.

But what about you?

What can you do to turn your anger into action? What are you concerned about that you care enough to start a Revolution? What can you do to start changing the world, one kid at a time?

I’m here to let you know that you have rights.  Maybe you don’t possess the right to vote or the right to drive or  drink alcohol... yet. But here’s a list of 9 rights that every one of you already has — even if you’ve forgotten what they are:

You have the right to...

  • Get angry at injustice
  • Live a life free of fear
  • Believe in yourself
  • Fix what’s broken
  • Listen to your gut
  • Change the world
  • Help others who can’t help themselves
  • Fight for your rights and the rights of others
  • Fight for your personal bill of rights

I’m  here to remind you of the rights you have and don’t use as well as the  rights you may not have even realized you had in the first place. I’m  here to remind you that if you do not protect these rights, you may  very well lose them. I’m here to let you know it’s time for you to  start saving the world, one Revolution at a time.

You have the right to recognize your power— and use it! Here’s  the kind of real, usable power I’m talking about: you are school smart  and you know something of how the world works and how to use technology  in order to reach hundreds, even thousands, of people with a single  Facebook post or YouTube video or text message — and even with all that  knowledge racked up in your brain you have power you don’t even know  about.

You have the power to start a Revolution — a Revolution where not only your life  gets better, but hundreds or thousands or even millions of people  improve the quality of their lives, too. You can be more than just a  kid or a jock or a nerd or a brain or a cheerleader or whatever label  the world uses to call you now; you can be more than that. You can be a Revolutionary!

Let me tell you about a world I’ve discovered and one you can be part of: When Just Yell Fire took  off and hundreds, then thousands, and millions of people joined my  revolution to put predators and rapists out of commission worldwide, I  was amazed at this unprecedented response to my cause. Because of all  that activity I received hundreds of invitations to meetings around the  country. These meetings are usually centered on an award or scholarship  for community service, but what they are really about is bringing kids  together who are trying to change the world. It’s a way for all of us  young revolutionaries to meet and greet; to get a break from school and  work and fundraisers and catch up with each other — or meet each other  for the very first time.

It’s really amazing to sit in a room with  other kids who have made a difference in the world and talk about  things like cancer cures and eliminating homelessness and poverty and  quitting smoking and getting relief for flood victims. These kids are  just like you and me and they have actually solved these problems in  their own communities. We’re not just talking pie-in-the-sky theories  or warm and fuzzy wannabes; these are Young Revolutionaries Who Rock!

In just the past couple of years I’ve become part of this brave new world and have met some phenomenal people along the way:

  • I met a guy from Canada who was bullied by kids and even bullied by his  TEACHERS when he was growing up because he was different from them. He  started an organization to teach people tolerance. He soon had 300  people working for him and has a million others helping him now — he is  a Revolutionary.
  • I met a high school student from South Carolina who found out about a  school in India without books, without desks and without electricity.  He called companies around the US, and now spends his summers  delivering container loads of supplies to this school and others like  it in India — he is a Revolutionary.
  • One girl figured out how to communicate with autistic kids. She’s  spreading the word, and parents, doctors, and teachers all over the  world are listening — she is a Revolutionary.
  • One girl sent a few CDs and DVDs to the troops overseas. The response  she got was so overwhelming that she started a non-profit organization  to encourage other people to provide more gifts for more soldiers — she  is a Revolutionary.

And I have hundreds of stories just like these; stories of modern revolutionaries who couldn’t wait any longer and decided to fight for their right to a better world.

Kids  are taking on world hunger, speeding up the search for cures to  horrible diseases and standing up for the environment. We are teaching  other kids about the dangers of smoking, the effects of drugs, and the  problem of underage drinking. We are doing what adults can’t, won’t or  just plain don’t. So there are thousands of kids changing the world —  all different colors and shapes and sizes and zip codes — and do you  know what they all have in common?

They all started out in middle school or in high school.  Most weren’t old enough to drive; they had never given a speech or held  a public office; they weren’t the best students or the best athletes;  they were just everyday, normal, average kids. Kids like me; kids like  you. But the other thing they had in common was that they all saw a  problem and decided to do something about it. They went from being kids  to become Young Revolutionaries Who Rock.

Excerpted  from “Young Revolutionaries Who Rock” by Dallas Jessup. Copyright (c)  2009, reprinted with permission from Sutton Hart Press.